Quail The Dog

     There are plenty of days when I feel like I'm not doing well as a parent. Maybe I'm not doing all I can for my kids, I'll think. Maybe I'm doing too much and not letting them learn themselves, I wonder. There are the days when I can muster a feeling of lacking pretty quickly, especially because, as a mom, I'm really focused on being the best darn one out there.

 

     Then there are days when you get to surprise your children with a new puppy.

     After careful consideration she was named Quail. In this family we are spiritually driven (as opposed, perhaps, to religiously) and tend to believe most fully in the lessons of Native American spirituality and being. We do have Native American ancestry and I know I've always felt very connected to it, despite it's now small representation in my actual DNA. None-the-less, we all have an identified spirit animal and my oldest is a Blue Jay. The Blue Jay is know for being mischievous, impulsive, difficult, and very smart. It is also known for having an inner conflict with this being, as it is also known for being loyal and concerned for it's brethren (often). There are many stories to be found detailing these myths, legends, and beliefs. One of her favorite stories is Blue Jay Girl by Sylvia Ross. It is a perfect representation, I think, of how my oldest sees herself sometimes. In the stories, Blue Jay Girl is ultimately tempered by channeling her "inner Quail". The Quail is known to be calm, patient, fore-thinking, all things Blue Jay Girls feels she lacks but desires.

    

     So as we were tossing out names as a family and trying to decide "Quail" came out and my oldest LOVED it! From then on it was set. She's already been nicknamed "Q" by my hubby for short and is beginning to recognize the name Quail. She is so sweet, even tempered, and patient, ESPECIALLY for a puppy. I can't wait to see how she and the girls grow together.

 

 

 

 

 

 

So today was a lucky day, one when I feel like we totally nailed it! I'll definitely take that.

 

Simple City Sam

 

The Floating (or Not) Shelf

      As you know we have very little space in our apartment. Beyond that I really LOVE being efficient with space and utilizing every square inch that we do have. With that in mind shelving is one of my favorite weapons. Whether it be the magical "floating shelves" or shelves in which the mysteries of support are evident, I am a fan.

 

     Shelves can be very inexpensive, utilitarian, decorative, varying lengths and sizes, and fit almost any need.

 

 

     I have a small simple one above my bed side stand. On it I am able to keep anything I need to out of reach from the girls, like staplers, pens, chapstick...you can see, the important stuff. This shelf was created entirely from left over supplies we had from the Wall Vanity project.

 

 

     I have a few decorative ones stationed near windows. These are perfect for plants and things we need to keep out of reach from the cats (that's right we have the double whammy of kids and cats). This shelf was found at a yard sale for $2!

 

 

      We have one above the toilet. It is out of reach from little hands and cats a like, but within reach for the adults. Here we keep all the necessary daily lotions, sunscreens, de-tanglers and the like. This one was also a yard sale find, $1.

 

 

      My love for shelving is no secret so every once in a while I even get one gifted to me. This was a house-warming present that's also a key rack. We keep it near the back door for easy access and for things like quarters- that are needed for the laundry, right outside the back door.

 

 

      Of course the girl's room is filled with them. We were drowning in stuffed animals and had to do something about it. So we put some shelves up and instantly earned back tons of floor and bed space.

 

 

 

      And this sweet baby! I got this at a yard sale too, for $5. It needed to have an ornamental piece removed from one end and then it was as good as new. Now it's one of my favorite items! It holds some of my most prized possessions. Its the ideal place for all those nick knacks you want to see but don't have space for otherwise.

 

 

      Obviously I keep my eyes out at yard sales, but I look for in store deals and sales too. There is always room for another shelf, in fact it's the shelf that makes the room!

 

 

Shelves galore!

 

Simple City Sam

City Onions

      A few weeks ago we found an onion in our dry storage that had begun to sprout. We seized the opportunity and let it sit to sprout even more so that we could plant it and have our own onions. It didn't take long until we had beautiful, long, healthy green onion shouts. We split the onion in thirds, because we had so many roots to plant, and planted them in a large terracotta planter.

 

 

     The shoots were doing great! The originals began to wilt a little, totally normal.

 

 

 

     What was really important is that NEW healthy growth had begun. We decided to give the healthy shoots some room to grow. So we harvested all the wilting green onion. Using kitchen shears we snipped them as close to the stalk as possible all while being careful to leave the new growth in tact.

 



 

 

 

      We were left with three well rooted stalks all with new growth AND a pile of delicious green onions that we froze (mostly) and will be able to use for weeks!

 



 

     As they continue to grow we will monitor them and may need to transplant one or more of them out of the large planter they are in currently. But for now the experiment of "seed onioning" is going very well! What could have easily ended up as compost will now help feed us through the coming months! I love nature. I'm so amazed at what it can accomplish and what we can accomplish ourselves if we work in tandem with it.

 

You know me...I love capitalizing on "waste". Simple and almost free, just how I like it.

 

Simple City Sam

 

 

Weekday Beach Day, Peaks Island

      Last Friday the girls and I took an adventure to Peaks Island. It is undoubtedly one of my favorite spots in Portland, hands down, and in general is one of my favorite places ever! There are a few small restaurants, a couple cute shops, an American Legion outpost, and some super friendly people. I have worked out there for almost a full decade and have loved every minute of it. This year, because of previously mentioned shake ups, I am unable to return to the island to work. So I am determined to spend a good deal of free time there with my girls to compensate.

 

     After years of spending thousands of dollars on boat tickets it's extra nice to get to bring a couple of free riders with me- it makes me feel like I'm getting my money's worth. Casco Bay Line's rates change seasonally and so do the schedules. I highly recommend taking a look before you head out. But what never changes it that children under 5 ride free and children 5-9 ride for half price, and that's round trip. This is great! So many places cut you off at 2 for discounted admission. Right now we ride 3 for the price of 1!

 

     So we took a 20 minute walk downtown, rode a ferry boat, looked for seals, and played on the beach for a few hours. It was magical.

 

 

     We tested the crunchiness of seaweed. 

 

 

     We looked for shells.

 

 

     We stuck our feet in the cold water. 

 

 

     We practiced throwing rocks and tried learning to skip rocks too!

 

 

 

I can't wait to do it all again.

 

Simple City Sam

Shakin' Things Up

     Well this post will be quick...probably. I've just got to let it all out there. We've got some major changes happening here at the 'ol homestead. It's true that we (my hubby and I in particular) never sit stagnant for too long. We've moved MANY times, between states, within states, even within the same town. We've changed careers at least once, a piece. Yet we always seem to settle back into some form of what we truly love which is food. And of course we've gotten married and had children all before I turned 30. Nowadays that's lightening speed!

     So we are at it again. As you know I've been staying at home full time, taking care of the kids and simplifying life as much as I could here at home. I've been blessed with the opportunity of a new job, one that will keep me busy full time. My husband has also been blessed with a chance to move his career back into the city in which we live as well as advance himself. He gets to leave a job that has not lived up to it's promises and be home at reasonable hours (instead of out the door at 5 a.m.). Win, win.

     It seems like a "no-brainer", but man it's a bit scary. This new job means that Daddy will now be home primarily during the day. Though fully capable, (he was the stay at home parent exclusively for the first 2 and a half years of child-dom) I am so weary to leave the things I love most. I know I'll miss so much! However, the girls will still have a parent home and we will actually get to spend more time together as a family. Instead of now, where we never seem to be together as a whole family, always divided by the needs.

     It also means we will in fact need to bring in some sort of child care for a very minimal amount of time (less than 10 hours a week). This is scary too. Apart from relatives, very close friends, and teachers, we haven't left them with anyone else...ever. This is not because we are over protective, more because there hasn't been a big need. We have a big family and often prefer to spend our time with our kids rather than have them looked after. Now, there is a real need. We've met a few recommend people that help out among our circle of friends, so that's at least comforting.

     To top it all off, we will also be moving...soon. We won't be going far, in fact it may be very near by if all goes according to plan. This is the thing that seems to be troubling the girls the most. It being so uncertain I know makes them uneasy. So we try to stay positive and focused. It's all we can do.

     All in all change is usually scary. We know that by now. We also kind of thrive on it, it's exciting. A new adventure awaits us. One where Mommy and Daddy both get to expand their careers, and be active in our family. An adventure where we spend more time together! An adventure where we can really enjoy the simplicity we've worked so hard to establish. We get to spend a summer playing together and preparing my oldest for kindergarten- another big change. I can't wait.

Wish us luck! This summer is bound to be a doozy!

Simple City Sam

Homemade Veggie Burgers

     So, I am by no means a vegetarian, but I do actually enjoy a good veggie burger. What's more is that because of my strict, "nothing but local grass fed beef" position, I often default to a veggie burger when at a restaurant. The problem with that is that most of those veggie burgers taste like saw dust, or basil, or some weird combo of the two. I was dying for a recipe I could make a home.

 

      I found this recipe on Pintrest and thought I'd give it a go. It was a good start but there were a few things I didn't like about it. First, I needed a recipe good for the whole family so the use of jalapenos and cayenne was out. After the first go round, I decided the taste of the tomato paste was to overwhelming, too. I also wanted the quinoa to be more present. So, I made some adjustments.

 

Ingredients

3/4 cup raw quinoa
1/2 cup finely chopped onion (red or white)
4 cloves garlic, minced
1 cup cooked diced sweet potato

1- 15 oz. can black beans, rinsed and drained (or 1/2 heaping cup of dry beans, cooked)

1 egg, lightly beaten
 ¾ cup corn kernels (fresh or thawed frozen)

½ cup fresh chopped cilantro
1 ½ Teaspoons Old Bay seasoning

salt and pepper to taste
½ cup rolled oats
¼ cup wheat flour (or All Purpose)

    

     First, if you are using dry beans, get those cooking. Also put on your quinoa (following packaging instructions for cooking), and get your sweet potatoes into boiling water. Once the potatoes are soft enough to break with a fork they can be drained and set aside. After the beans are soft and fully cooked they can also be set aside, and the quinoa maybe set aside when it is done too. If you are using frozen corn, take the measured amount out to thaw.

 

     Next, sautee the onion and garlic in a pan with olive oil, salt, and pepper. Cook until onions are fully translucent, but be careful not to burn the garlic.

 

     In a large mixing bowl, mash up the black beans. You can use a potato masher, fork, or whatever works. Add the sweet potatoes and mash those up too. The potatoes are going to get really mashed as we go, they are the primary base, so don't go too crazy just yet.

 

     Add the onion and garlic, and mix. Add the quinoa, and mix. Add the rest of the ingredients and mix well after each addition. The end result is going to be a lumpy veggie paste. Admittedly it doesn't look super appetizing...yet.



 

 

     Take the mixture in your hands (coat hands with a little oil if you want to keep it from sticking to you) and form it into patties. It actually molds really easily. I like to make full size ones for the adults and little sliders for the kids, they like the special treat. I get 5 of each (or two full meals, and a lunch) typically, and the adult ones are really good size (approx. 8 oz.). If I make all adult sized ones I can get 8, easily. Place molded burgers on a sheet tray or a plate.

      

 

 

 

     Next, wrap the tray tightly with plastic wrap and let sit for at least 6 hours. I find it best to make these the night before we anticipate having them. However, I have made them the morning of and they came out just fine.

 

     When you're ready to eat, grill them in a grill pan or sautee pan with a little bit of oil. The oil really helps crisp the outside, which help the burger keep shape. Let them cook, on medium for about 6-8 minutes on each side, you want it to cook throughout.

      

 

     No, I did not intentionally cook these in the shape of Mickey Mouse.

 



 

 

     We like to serve them with homemade sweet potato fires, or plantain chips. I usually dress my burger with cheese, lettuce, tomato, cucumber and spicy mustard. Mmmm, so good! Even my kids and husband love them, and that is a feat when it comes to veggie burgers!!

 

Give these a whirl, I promise you'll love them!

 

Simple City Sam

Mother's Day

     Unless you were living under a rock, you are probably aware that today is Mother's Day. It is meant to be a day when we celebrate our mothers and all they have done for us.

     My day was wonderful. My children let me sleep in and made me breakfast in bed- scrambled eggs, cantaloupe and tea. Then I was allowed time to sit quietly and read while drinking my tea, a true luxury. We went through all of the girl's clothes and re-organized their room. I know it is odd, but I really do enjoy that sort of thing! I got time to do some sewing while others cleaned. Topping off the day was an amazing dinner with my family and a trip out for ice cream. Whew! I am honestly blessed by the children (and husband) in my life and could not be happier.

     With all that said, I can't help feeling very introspective on this day too. Why should we recognize our mother's only one day a year? Now, don't get all salty, those of you who immediately thought, "I always show mom I appreciate her". I just mean why should it be deemed so, and be honest do you really show her that often? As a mom I find it to be the little things that matter the most, the flower bouquet my kids pick randomly on some given day, the glorious afternoon where they both listen and following instruction, the spontaneous hug and smooch and "love you Mommy". Those are the things we truly want, every day of the year!

     How does this day affect the single moms out there? The moms who aren't fortunate enough to have someone by their sides to help make, even this one day, a little easier for them? How does it feel to have the blessings of children, yet the burden of sole responsibility? Does this day make them feel slighted somehow, as if to say, "Yeah, it's your day, but it doesn't really get to be special for you. It's just another day."?

     What about the women, like myself, who have lost children during pregnancy, or worse yet lost children after birth? How does this day affect them? For me I think about that baby I lost in my second trimester and the pain and grief that went with it. But in truth I think about that a lot, still... more than 3 years later. I think about what my family would look like now, how it would be different. I think about how hard it is to always have to answer, "we have 2 children", when the answer could be different. And what about the mothers who have no consolation in other children? How must this day feel for them?

     How must this day feel for the women who have tried so desperately to conceive and simply can't? For the women who were unable to care for their children and placed them for adoption. And what about all those children who are without mothers, and the adults for that matter. Today must be difficult for all those who already miss their moms.

     I certainly do not mean to bring down the mood of a wonderful day, but it made me think. It put into stark relief how fortunate we truly are. It made me happy, simply happy to be who and where I am today. So that's what I'm taking from Mother's Day this year, the simple realization of what this day really does mean. It means so much. Mother's Day means, happiness, joy, grief, sadness, remembrance, gratefulness, honor, pride, and most of all LOVE. Love in all forms.

Happy Mother's Day!

Simple City Sam